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Continue reading →: The Drop: What Happens After the High in BDSM PlayHey babe! Ever heard of The Drop? No, not a new synthwave track or you dropping a plate. I’m talking about sub drop and dom drop the emotional (and sometimes physical) crash that can hit after an intense BDSM scene or play session. Yep. Even after the best scene, when…
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Continue reading →: What is BDSM aftercare?Aftercare is what happens after a scene or play session ends. It’s the emotional, physical, and psychological TLC that helps everyone involved come back down to Earth in one piece. It’s more or less like a cool-down after a workout, or a warm blanket after a thunderstormour body and brain…
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Continue reading →: The Ultimate Guide to Using a BDSM Yes/No/Maybe ListIf you are curious about BDSM, Pet Play or any other kink, exploring new interests, or simply trying to understand your own boundaries better, a Yes/No/Maybe list is a useful place to start. At its simplest, it is a list of BDSM activities, kinks, roles, and dynamics that you work…
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Continue reading →: What Is BDSM?Alright babe, let’s talk about the acronym that is: BDSM. You’ve probably heard the term tossed around in movies, memes, or whispered convos that end in “…but I’d never do that.”Well guess what? You might already be into that — you just didn’t have the name for it. Let’s discuss…
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Continue reading →: What Is Kink? An intro to BDSM for the Curious Beginner.Hey babe — welcome to Kinkarchives! First of all, let’s get one thing straight: this space is 100% judgment-free and safe for the deeply curious. If you are not sure what BDSM is, or if you already understand had a vibe that vanilla wasn’t your flavor, you’ve landed in the…
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